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phaedrus   
his eyes he will be compelled to banish from him divine philosophy;
and there is no greater injury which he can inflict upon him than
this. He will contrive that his beloved shall be wholly ignorant,
and in everything shall look to him; he is to be the delight of the
lover's heart, and a curse to himself. Verily, a lover is a profitable
guardian and associate for him in all that relates to his mind.
Let us next see how his master, whose law of life is pleasure and
not good, will keep and train the body of his servant. Will he not
choose a beloved who is delicate rather than sturdy and strong? One
brought up in shady bowers and not in the bright sun, a stranger to
manly exercises and the sweat of toil, accustomed only to a soft and
luxurious diet, instead of the hues of health having the colours of
paint and ornament, and the rest of a piece?-such a life as any one
can imagine and which I need not detail at length. But I may sum up
all that I have to say in a word, and pass on. Such a person in war,
or in any of the great crises of life, will be the anxiety of his
friends and also of his lover, and certainly not the terror of his
enemies; which nobody can deny.
And now let us tell what advantage or disadvantage the beloved
will receive from the guardianship and society of his lover in the
matter of his property; this is the next point to be considered. The
lover will be the first to see what, indeed, will be sufficiently
evident to all men, that he desires above all things to deprive his
beloved of his dearest and best and holiest possessions, father,
mother, kindred, friends, of all whom he thinks may be hinderers or
reprovers of their most sweet converse; he will even cast a jealous
eye upon his gold and silver or other property, because these make him
a less easy prey, and when caught less manageable; hence he is of
necessity displeased at his possession of them and rejoices at their
loss; and he would like him to be wifeless, childless, homeless, as
well; and the longer the better, for the longer he is all this, the
longer he will enjoy him.
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